A letter from Valley Catholic Middle School Principal Dr. Jennifer Gfroerer

Jen sitting with hands crossed on a table

Dear VCMS Families,

Next Friday, April 18, we will observe Good Friday, a solemn and sacred day in the Christian tradition. In recognition of its significance, normal classes will be suspended, and students will instead participate in a period of quiet reflection and spiritual enrichment.

The purpose of this time is to help students consider the “crosses” or struggles that others carry in their lives, and to reflect on the profound effect one person can have through their actions, faith, and compassion.

During the school day, students will have the opportunity to engage in a variety of reflective and age-appropriate spiritual activities, including:

  • The Stations of the Cross
  • Praying the Sorrowful Mysteries of the Rosary
  • Viewing a film centered on the theme of one person making a meaningful difference
  • Participating in sensory walks designed for contemplative reflection
  • Additional enrichment activities that explore the message and mystery of the Easter Triduum—from the evening of Holy Thursday through Easter Sunday

While we strongly encourage families to participate in Good Friday services at their local parish communities, we also recognize that each family may choose to honor the day in a way that is most meaningful to them.

That said, we do respectfully encourage all families to consider observing the traditional Holy Hours—from 12:00 to 3:00 p.m. — with intentional quiet and reflection. These hours represent the time Christ hung on the cross and are considered by many to be the most sacred of the day. We ask that, if possible, students refrain from recreational activities such as television, video games, or social media during this time, and instead embrace stillness and reverence.

“Because Jesus suffered on the Cross between the hours of noon and 3 p.m., these three hours today are considered the most sacred of all. Draw the curtains, take the phone off the hook, turn off televisions and radios, quiet your environment and yourself, and meditate on what Christ has done for you. At 3 p.m., ‘The Hour’ He died, the atmosphere should be as if you are standing next to the deathbed of your father who died a moment ago.”

A Brief Reflection on Good Friday

Good Friday commemorates the Passion of Christ — His suffering and death on the cross. Despite its somber tone, it is called “Good” because it marks the moment of our redemption and the triumph of sacrificial love.

This day invites us into the heart of discipleship. It reminds us of the cost of love and the call to follow Christ in service, humility, and faith.

The Triduum Begins

Good Friday marks the second day of the Easter Triduum, following Holy Thursday. On Holy Thursday, we reflect on Jesus’ washing of the disciples’ feet and His commandment to love as He has loved us. On Good Friday, we are asked to enter into the mystery of Christ’s suffering and death and to consider how we might respond — with lives of compassion, sacrifice, and service.

We are honored to walk with your children through this sacred season and thank you for supporting their formation — spiritually, emotionally, and academically.

Wishing you and your family peace during this Holy Week.

Dr. Jennifer Gfroerer